I read an article recently which spoke about what guys think after a break up, which got me thinking maybe guys would like to know what girls think after a break up. I mean, I guess its hard on both parties but I was surprised at the difference between the two. While the girl will mostly be misty eyed and sorrowful, a guy will be stoic and indifferent. Like they say, men are from Mars and women are from Venus!
What girls think after a break up
First off, it depends on who dumped whom, like duh! Let’s start with what happens when you dump her.
She will be mad at you for the first couple of days. She won’t believe that you could let an incredible woman like her slip away. She will miss you like crazy but avoid you like plague. She wants to make you suffer you see, she will hope that you will realize how much you need her and go back to her.
The disbelief and anger will soon turn to hurt and disappointment and she’ll remind herself of all the times that you’ve let her down. This is where the tears and girlfriends come into play. And a couple of guy friends. They will all be subjected to her reasons as to why the breakup was a good move. She may also hit the club and indulge in some mild flirtation just to check her desirability. She’ll hope that you’ll walk in and see her standing amidst all those boys and realize what you let go.
Eventually, she’ll stop looking at her phone every minute and slowly let go of everything you had together. If you want to be friends with this woman, you may approach her safely after this point. Only after she’s let go completely. But very few people can actually do that. If you can, hats off!
But if she’s the one who’s done the dumping, she’ll will feel extremely guilty. She’ll wonder whether she did the right thing. If her doubts or feelings are strong enough, she may even call you back and suggest that you should try once again.
If she does and if you say no, she’ll try to push it out of her mind that you rejected her and remember that she dumped you. She’ll remember all the things she did for you and all the things you never did for her. She’ll hope that you’ll come to your senses and dream up wild scenarios where you surprise her by coming by to her workplace or to her place and beg her forgiveness. When that doesn’t happen, she’ll cry herself to sleep every night till she feels healed. And then she’ll be done.
If she doesn’t, she really meant it when she said let break up. And most probably she’s already been through all the stages of breaking up. Its wisest to let this woman be. She was probably over you the minute she walked out that door.
What do guys think after a break up? Anybody?