I did a recent post titled “He is just not that into you”. But it can happen the other way around too. Maybe she is just not that into you. A little piece of trivia – When I did some googling for keyword, I found that while 8800 people (I’m guessing mostly women) search for the phrase “He is just not that into you”, only 91 people (I’m guessing guys) search for the phrase “She is just not that into you.” Speaks volumes doesn’t it? 
Anyhooooo, moving on.
Signs that she is just not that into you
She doesn’t sound very receptive when you call: She answers your phone call but it’s hard to keep her talking. And she keeps finding excuses to hang up saying she’ll call you back, but she never does. Same thing over texts. Your texts going unanswered for days together, is a big sign that she is just not that into you.
She balks at the thought of meeting you alone: Every time you ask her out, she asks you who all are coming and makes excuses if it’s just going to be the two of you.
She doesn’t mind it when other women flirt with you: Give it a try. Try talking about a girl who seems interested in you. If she doesn’t react at all, or if she encourages you whole heartedly, chances are she is just not that into you.
Her friends snicker and try “saving” her from you: If her friends interrupt your conversations every time and try to take her away making some excuses, take the hint. She not only is not that into you, she also doesn’t like your attention. Leave this girl alone. There are a million other girls out there who would love to be your girl.
She calls you at the last moment and asks to meet up: No, don’t get excited. If she does this consistently, it’s time to start saying no. This is sort of a booty call.. But you’re not going to get anything. Maybe she doesn’t have a date and wants some company on a Friday night. If she keeps you hanging till the last moment, she’s not that into you.
She talks about how much she loves her ex or crush: Dude! Really? If this girl is clearly telling you she has the hots for someone else, she’s so not into you. If on the other hand she tells you things like how guys hit on her, she may be trying to get you jealous. So listen carefully! Read also: Things girls do if they like you.
If you have figured out this girl is just not that into you by now, my sympathies. I know how hard heartbreaks can be. Hey, I started a whole new blog because of it! All I’m saying is, eventually, you’ll learn to let this one go and be open to someone else. Just give it some time. You’ll find that amazing girl who lights up your day and makes you feel wonderful. Just you watch 
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Posted on February 1, 2012
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