Wow, the first kiss. Just writing about it has me feeling all tingly and flushed. In every relationship, the first kiss is considered to be an ominous moment. A sensuous, soft and tender kiss can intoxicate your senses and give you a completely different high. When done right, your partner will remember you forever, whether you stay together or not is a different matter. You’ll always be their best kisser. And trust me, girls rate kissing very high.
So how do you go about giving the best kisses? Don’t worry, I’ll tell you.
How to kiss a girl! (for the very first time)
Find a safe place: Honestly guys, this is something you should do. A girl likes to be treated like a lady. She doesn’t want to be caught making out behind trees or inside cars. If you want your girl to feel safe and comfortable, find a safe place. If not for all making out sessions, make sure you do this for the first kiss.
Wait for the right moment: Don’t just take her to the “safe place” and pounce on her. Make her comfortable, sit her down on a couch. Don’t make it obvious you are going to going to kiss her. The surprise element can earn you major brownie points. Notice I said surprise and not alarm. Don’t scare her. If she starts getting fidgety and uncomfortable, back down. There will always be a next time. Never be in a hurry. The first kiss is meant to be slow and passionate, not hurried and forced.
Make sure you don’t have bad breath or chapped lips: I won’t even bother telling you how off-putting bad breath is. Don’t overdose on the mint though. Chapped lips are another strict no no. You won’t be girly if you dab on a little lip balm. Don’t OVERDO it! Smell good. Don’t overdo this either. A nice smelling man is major turn-on.
Touch her hand gently before you kiss her: See how she reacts, if she pulls away, maybe she’s not ready or maybe she doesn’t want to be kissed. Stop right there if she pulls away. But if she doesn’t, cup her face gently. Depending on her reaction, you may even try to kiss her cheek. The point is not to come across as a desperate guy. So keep your hands steady. Don’t start feeling her up. Be a gentleman.
A great kissing tip: Sip on some water before you kiss her. The wetness of your mouth makes kissing more enjoyable.
The first kiss and then some: Now comes the grand finale! If you’ve got this far without her running away, chances are she wants you to kiss her. Lean in a little and kiss her mouth. Don’t try to kiss her straight, if your noses touch, both of you could start laugh which is not so bad, but it’s not what you want to associate your first kiss with. Tilt your head to one side and kiss her mouth.
Be patient with your first kiss: Don’t put your tongue into her mouth or drool on her face. Kiss her lips and back away for a second. See her reaction. Is she comfortable? If her eyes are closed normally(not clenched tightly), you’re safe, you may go back to kissing her. But she’s looking at you with horror or shock, let her go. If she is comfortable, kiss her again and let her lips feel the wetness of your mouth. She may respond in kind. That’s when you start frenching 
. But its okay if she doesn’t. Remember, she’s probably pretty nervous too.
French kissing: I don’t know the exact definition, but I think if tongue is involved, kissing becomes French kissing. So, once she opens her mouth, don’t dive in. Use your tongue to lick her lips. Don’t dribble on her, just lick her mouth softly, around the corner, the edges. If she responds in kind, let your tongues meet briefly.
The pressure and the posture: completely forgot about this. Don’t be overbearing. Hold her, but not so tightly, that she can’t get away if she wants to. Same with the pressure of your kisses, kiss her passionately, let her feel your kisses but don’t be hard on her sensitive mouth. Kissing is for pleasure, its not a contest. You may be sitting down or standing, but I prefer to stand when I kiss. If you are feeling like a knight in shining armour, kiss her like one. Take her in your arms and tilt her to one side, supporting most of her weight on your armour. Please don’t drop her! I know every girl wants to be kissed like they show in the movies. Another thing which I really like is being pressed against the wall and kissed. Don’t worry if you don’t know how. You’ll figure this out. J
If you are sitting down, you may move your hand down to her back and hold her waist.
Biting the lips? If you both are feeling a little playful, you could bite her lower lip. Don’t be too rough, its meant to be playful. A quick nip and release can be fun and tantalizing.
Well, there you go! I hope this helps you guys get over the awkward but important first kiss. Remember, every girl is different and she may react differently to different moves. Adjust accordingly and you are good to go! And have fun. In my long lecture, I forgot how much fun kissing is. Listen to me, you’re going to kiss the girl you love. Forget all your apprehensions and kiss her. Show her you love and desire her. What can be better than that?! 
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JJ
January 24, 2012
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